James Robert Massey Jr.

It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of James Robert Massey Jr., a beloved husband, father, grandfather, and friend, who left this world on February 19, 2025, at the age of 78. James was a remarkable man whose love for life and devotion to his family left an indelible mark on all who knew him. Born on October 4, 1946, James was a proud veteran of the Vietnam War, serving honorably in the Army. His bravery and dedication were recognized with numerous accolades, reflecting his commitment to his country. It was during this time, and while on a month break, that he met the love of his life, Betty Massey. They were united in marriage on April 15, 1972, and their bond only grew stronger over the course of their 52 years together. Betty was his everything, and their love story serves as an inspiration to all who have witnessed it. After retiring in 2008, James discovered a passion for gardening and the great outdoors. He nurtured both plants and animals with the same tender care he showed to his family. His gardens became a sanctuary of beauty and tranquility, a testament to his green thumb and his deep appreciation for nature. James was a devoted family man, fiercely proud of his children, Brenda and Melissa, and his grandchildren, Ashley and Jonathan. He cherished every moment spent with them and took immense joy in their accomplishments. His love for his family was boundless, and he instilled in them the values of kindness, hard work, and love for the outdoors. James is preceded in death by his baby brother Billy Massey, his father James Robert Massey Sr., and his mother Dorothy Mae Carter. James is survived by his beloved wife, Betty; daughters Brenda and Melissa Stewart, and her husband, Matthew (his bonus son); his niece Cheryl (Chris) and his cherished grandchildren, Ashley and Jonathan. He leaves behind a legacy of love, laughter, and a deep appreciation for life that will continue to inspire his family. The family wishes to extend their heartfelt gratitude to the dedicated staff at the Reston Hospital ICU for their compassionate care during his final days, as well as to the Richmond Veteran Affairs Hospital in Richmond and Spotsylvania campuses for the exceptional support they provided over the years. Because of you, we were granted more precious time with our Dad.

James Robert Massey Jr.

October 4, 1946 - February 19, 2025